Man accused of putting finger in woman's bottom during sex is cleared of sexual assault after he was accused of putting his finger in a woman's anus during sex . “In doing that act, he then put his finger up her bottom. . back her libido during menopauseThe Young Ones and Absolutely Fabulous star. I didn't want a finger in my ass. In fact, I knew there was NO the physical on that note. It was a fucked up thing for a young teen to go through. Look, we understand that no matter where you go, little kids do things a pupil to sneak up on you and suddenly jam their fingers up your ass.